Driving over a snowy road presents a number of challenges. Beyond the slipping, there is the typical problem of locating exactly where the road it. When we veer off the road, we can easily get caught in ruts and trapped in holes and ditches that line our nations highway shoulders. That challenge is not unlike leading people. It is easy to wander off the road and get trapped. Whether you are a mom or dad at home or the leader of a large corporation or even nation -- there are five traps that can destroy your leadership, even if it is built on the best intentions.
Some problems are admittedly caused by the leader: In Leadership magazine, Dave Wilkinson writes the following to pastors… Have you ever wondered why your pastoral resume doesn’t evoke more enthusiasm? Do you ever think, "What are these people looking for?" Perhaps the question should be, "What aren’t they looking for?" because with the numbers of applications pastor nominating committees receive, their first task is to eliminate applicants. Here, then, as a public service, are statements certain to stop a resume dead in its tracks. · "I believe empathy is overrated." · "In the five churches I have faithfully served over the past two years ..." · "My hobbies are pit bulls and automatic weapons." · "I am willing to sacrifice my family for the sake of the ministry. I am also willing to sacrifice yours." · "I have learned to cope with financial crisis at every church I’ve served." · "I require an attractive secretary and/or organist." · "My extensive counseling of church members has proved a rich source of pointed sermon illustrations." · "Amway taught me everything I know about evangelism." · "I’ve been told that every sermon I preach is better than the next." · "My personality has provided me ample opportunity to develop conflict-resolution skills." [Resume Stoppers, Citation: Dave Wilkinson, Leadership, Vol. 12, no. 1.]
Key Principle: The circumstances of leadership will change, but the principles will not.
Trap #1: Neglect – Take care of those under your charge (5:17-18)
1 Timothy 5:17 The elders who rule well are to be considered worthy of double honor, especially those who work hard at preaching and teaching. 18 For the Scripture says, "YOU SHALL NOT MUZZLE THE OX WHILE HE IS THRESHING," and "The laborer is worthy of his wages." NASB
There are a couple of words worth a closer look as we zero in on what Paul intended:
- Rule: “Pro-estotace”: some translate this as to "rule," but that is not the best translation. Some translations copy it as "to lead" invoking the Shepherd image. It literally means "to care for as a protector or guardian, to be out in front leading and guiding." It is interesting to notice that it is only used in Paul’s writings. One time referring to the gifts of God’s people in Romans 12:8 - leadership, 5 times in direct reference to elders in the Pastoral Epistles.
- Double Honor: “Diplace timace”: double price, this to the one who works hard “kopi-ontos” literally “wearies himself” in the Word and teaching.
One Pastor said: "A pastor who speaks to his congregation about honoring church leaders seems about as tacky as Congress voting themselves a raise", but that isn’t the only point of the passage. Timothy was over a number of men in the city of Ephesus. He needed to gauge how well they were doing in the work, and how much they were working at it. The men needed to be able, but also faithful (2 Timothy 2). He was to measure and reward! That is no easy job. I have had to try to evaluate missionaries on the field. It is no fun.
How was he to “HONOR” them? First, there is an attitude of honor, as in 1 Thess. 5:12-13: “And we urge you, brethren, to recognize those who labor among you, and are over you in the Lord and admonish you, (13) and to esteem them very highly in love for their work’s sake….” Beyond the attitude there can be financial support for them. Those who are called to communicate the Scripture are worthy of financial support based on Deuteronomy 25:4 and Lk 10:7. Deuteronomy forbade a farmer from muzzling the ox as it tramples the wheat. Paul also quoted LUKE as SCRIPTURE! This is a word for word quote of Luke 10:7. Dr. Homer Kent notes: "No other meaning can be gotten from Paul’s construction than that he places both quotations on the same level (joined by kai, and) and terms them Scripture (he graphe). Paul wrote this letter in A.D. 62-63, and Luke’s Gospel was probably written before A.D. 60. Hence this verse is further evidence that the writings we call New Testament Scripture were recognized as such during the lifetime of their writers, and we may suggest in many cases from the time of writing."
How does this apply to the larger picture of leadership? Timothy had to find mechanisms to measure the effort and effectiveness of the men under his charge. You do no favor allowing men to be lazy and not correcting the behavior. It is uncomfortable, but essential. If you promote everyone, you kill productivity.
Trap # 2: Overreaction – Be careful about accusations and discipline (5:19-20)
5:19 "Do not receive an accusation against an elder except on the basis of two or three witnesses. 20 Those who continue in sin, rebuke in the presence of all, so that the rest also will be fearful of sinning."
Again, let's look closer at a few of the words:
- Accusation: “katagoria”: literally from kata: around, down from and “agora” the market. It meant a charge list from the “word on the street in the marketplace.
- Rebuke: "elenghko": call attention to, chasten. This is “in the presence of all” or before all that were a part of the offense, and was to be a deterrent to sin.
When leading adults, expect some to have a problem with you, and to have a problem expressing that directly to you… Why demand two or three witnesses? Because church leaders live open and public lives, and are particularly vulnerable to false accusations. One writer I read pointed out that Leadership Journal, a quarterly journal for pastors, has at least one article about a pastor who’s ministry was destroyed by false accusation.
The same misunderstanding that happens in public leadership can be true in a family. Your children may not understand your reasons for the things you do. They aren’t in your area of responsibility!
Ultimately, we should treat those who lead fairly. We watch and we listen, but we expect clear and compelling evidence to believe something that is damaging to them. If you lead, be careful! Do not jump to conclusions based on what someone tells you. The formula, “I want to think well of you, but I have this report and I want to be sure that we are walking together properly…”
Trap # 3: Blinding Bias – Keep the standard impartially (5:21)
5:21 "I solemnly charge you in the presence of God and of Christ Jesus and of His chosen angels, to maintain these principles without bias, doing nothing in a spirit of partiality." NASB
Note especially the word: Bias or "prokrimatos" which is literally from “before” and “judge”. Do not PREJUDGE.
Bias is damaging and dangerous. You can’t tell by the cover! During the preparations for an evangelistic crusade in Latin America, a very poor, unshaven man came to one of the week-long biblical counseling courses. It was unusual to see a man of this condition attending an in-depth training session. Most often, those with a better education and social standing are the ones who take an active role in this type of intensive preparation. The illiterate man attended every class, but those in leadership didn’t expect him to do much counseling. Several weeks later, all of the available counselors were busy when a physician walked in. This shabbily dressed man immediately greeted the doctor and took him into a room for counseling. Once the director discovered what had happened, he became deeply concerned. When the doctor came out, the director asked if he needed any help. The physician replied, “No, thank you. This fellow has helped me very much.” The next day that same doctor showed up with two other colleagues and asked to see the shoeless man. By the end of the week, that illiterate man had led four doctors and their wives to Christ. God needs nothing more than available servants. Christian Reader, Sept./Oct. 1991, p. 61
Timothy, place an expectation on your leaders to live consistently with the honor of that calling but don’t confuse integrity with perfection. What an awesome responsibility leadership is!" Let the oldest child get away with it, and expect the later children to note that behavior and assume the right to do it as well!
Ray Stedman notes: " Timothy might well have felt inadequate, but notice whom the apostle summons to his aid, whom he says is watching: "in the presence of God and of Christ Jesus and of the elect angels." God the Father is involved. He is at.work in the congregation. He knows what is going on; nothing is hid from his eyes. Christ Jesus, Lord of the church, head of the body, is present also. Jesus can work from within. He can touch mens' consciences; he can get at their hearts. And the elect angels are involved, these personages whom the book of Hebrews tells us are as "ministering spirits sent forth to minister to those who shall be the heirs of salvation," {Heb 1:14 KJV}. I do not know exactly what these angels do, but it is very important and significant. Paul tells Timothy not to be intimidated. If it requires action, act -- patiently, lovingly, thoughtfully, carefully -- but act."
And so must you. Make sure those under your care are acting as they should be. If they aren’t and you “let them off” you damage the whole organization and fail to lead.
Trap # 4: Impatience – Take time to train and observe before appointment (5:22, 24-25)
5:22 "Do not lay hands upon anyone too hastily and thereby share responsibility for the sins of others; keep yourself free from sin… 24 The sins of some men are quite evident, going before them to judgment; for others, their sins follow after. 25 Likewise also, deeds that are good are quite evident, and those which are otherwise cannot be concealed.
Note the term "Evident": prodayloi is literally “before” and “manifest, open or obvious”.
It takes time and skill to identify the hardest workers and the members most valuable to the team. A gem dealer was strolling the aisles at the Tucson Gem and Mineral Show when he noticed a blue-violet stone the size and shape of a potato. He looked it over, then, as calmly as possible, asked the vendor, "You want $15 for this?" The seller, realizing the rock wasn’t as pretty as others in the bin, lowered the price to $10. The stone has since been certified as a 1,905-carat natural star sapphire, about 800 carats larger than the largest stone of its kind. It was appraised at $2.28 million. (Online Leadership Journal (America Online) To Illustrate: Redemption Wanda Vassallo)
Ray Stedman: "Some men are skillful at hiding sin. They appear to be very dedicated, committed people, but there is rotten evil in their hearts all the time. If you get into the habit of electing people to office or appointing them into some responsible position without giving time to observe them you will get into trouble. ’Time will tell,’ the world’s proverb says."
Trap # 5: Over-engagement – Don’t get torn up over the disappointments (5:23).
23 No longer drink water exclusively, but use a little wine for the sake of your stomach and your frequent ailments.
Leaders in ministry can get too absorbed in the work to use their head about caring for themselves in a proper way! It was probable that Timothy's problems with his stomach were related to his leadership role as a leader of other men. Paul was encouraging Timothy to deal with the signs of anxiety. Literally, he was to deal with himself by living a healthy lifestyle. We should be encouraging our leaders to do things that will keep them fit and refreshed.
Leadership has great rewards, but the costs are also quite real. We can become over attached to dear friends and co-laborers and then see them fall. I know of few things as painful. In all of the turns of the snowy road, we should ever remember, the circumstances of leadership will change, but the principles will not.





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